Department of Social Development Leaders


Supporting Siblings Of Children With Disabilities
By Morapedi Sibeko.
- Creating an inclusive environment for children with disabilities means including their siblings in a family-centred approach.
- Parents of children with disabilities often, unintentionally, overlook the emotional needs of the other children in the family while trying to meet the high demands of caregiving.
- The Department of Social Development, which currently has a delegation in Japan to share best practices, recognises that families are fully supported, children and people with disabilities can thrive.
When a child is born with a disability, much of the family’s energy understandably centres on that child’s needs. Yet, another story quietly unfolds – that of the sibling.
Brothers and sisters of children with disabilities often carry invisible responsibilities, managing their own emotions while trying to help their families function.
Expected to be the “easy” child, the one who does not complain or act out, they sometimes assume caregiving roles far beyond their years. Their love is sincere, but the weight can be heavy.
Research published in the International Journal of Developmental Disabilities shows that siblings of children with disabilities are more likely to experience mental health challenges, including anxiety, depression, and emotional withdrawal.
These experiences are often compounded by limited support systems, a lack of understanding of the disability, and uncertainty about future caregiving roles.
Parents, often unintentionally, overlook the emotional needs of siblings while trying to meet the high demands of caregiving.
This emotional gap can leave lasting effects.
The Department of Social Development recognises these dynamics and continues to prioritise family-centred care approaches, by making sure that children with disabilities, their siblings, and caregivers are supported holistically.
South African social worker Cecilia Mazibuko knows this journey intimately.
She is a mother to a son and twin daughters, one of whom has a disability. Her professional and personal lives intersect daily, giving her a deeply empathetic view of how disability reshapes family dynamics.
“After the diagnosis of one of the twins, I found myself spending most of my time in hospital,” she recalls.
“Their father took on the primary caregiving role for our other children. But the twin who was not sick began to feel left out. She would sometimes say, ‘Mommy, I can see you love her more than me’.”
This perception of unequal attention is common among siblings and often leads to emotional strain.
The twin without a disability began acting out, a way of seeking connection and recognition. “She became naughty,” Mazibuko says gently, “it was her way of expressing loneliness.”
Meanwhile, Mazibuko’s older son stepped into a caregiving and protective role early in life.
“He became a caregiver and defender of his sister, often at the cost of his own carefree childhood. As parents, we were stretched. At times, I began to resent the situation or even question my partner’s effort even though he was fully present.”
These layered realities reflect the emotional complexity faced by many families. Siblings become hidden supporters growing up faster, navigating loss, pride, guilt, and love all at once.
In Japan, Motoki Hirose, a robotics engineer, and father of a child with a disability, turned this reality into innovation. Faced with his son’s mobility challenges, he shifted his career to developing robotic equipment designed to assist with movement.
By doing so, Hirose not only supported his son’s independence but eased the emotional burden on his other children.
They no longer had to assume caregiving roles on their own. His work is a powerful example of how families can adapt with purpose, dignity, and creativity.
A delegation of officials and caregivers from the Department of Social Development, including Mazibuko, is currently in Japan, learning firsthand how that country caters for children with disabilities and sharing in best practices.
Another Japanese voice, Mayu Takishima, grew up with a brother who has autism and intellectual disability. While her brother attended a therapeutic centre, she was enrolled in an Early Childhood Development Centre, a necessary but emotionally difficult separation.
In high school, she struggled to speak openly about her home life, often isolating herself due to guilt and a sense of difference.
But later, as a university student, she found strength in sharing her experience.
Takishima went on to establish SHAMS (Sharing Mind of Siblings), a support group for brothers and sisters of individuals with disabilities and chronic illnesses. SHAMS provides a platform for siblings to connect, reflect, and grow together, recognising that supporting siblings benefits not just individuals, but the whole family.
The Department of Social Development’s new disability policy – Policy on Services to Persons with Disabilities, which is yet to be approved by Cabinet – is anchored in the White Paper on the Rights of Persons with Disabilities (2016).
The White Paper calls on everyone to build an inclusive and enabling environment for children and people with disabilities and families who support them.
Respite care services provide short-term relief to parents, creating much-needed space to reconnect with siblings and ensure their voices are heard.
As the Department of Social Development continues to promote inclusive family support systems, recognising and uplifting siblings is a vital part of that vision.
When families are fully supported, children and people with disabilities can thrive. An inclusive society leaves no one behind, not even the quiet heroes behind the scenes.
Budget Vote Speech By The Deputy Minister Of Social Development, Mr Ganief Hendricks
Minister Sisisi Tolashe And Deputy Minister Ganief Hendricks To Table Social Development Budget Vote 19 In Parliament, Cape Town
Speech by the Minister of Social Development, Ms Nokuzola Sisisi Tolashe, MP on the occasion of the tabling of Budget Vote 19 of the Department of Social Development to the National Assembly
From Words To Action: Lekwa Leaders Unite Against Substance Abuse And Social Ills
By Tholakele Makena.
- Call for Practical Interventions: Mayor Mngomezulu urged a shift from awareness campaigns to concrete, school-based interventions and community-driven solutions.
- The Department of Social Development has activated substance abuse forums and action committees within municipalities to ensure localised and sustained responses.
- Initiatives in Lekwa include door-to-door outreach, youth skills training, parenting workshops, and partnerships with NPOs tackling HIV, GBV, and social cohesion.
Cllr. Sifiso Michael Mngomezulu, Executive Mayor of Lekwa Local Municipality, has described drug abuse as not merely a local crisis but a global epidemic. Speaking at the commemoration of the International Day Against Drug Abuse and Illicit Trafficking (IDADAIT) held at Sakhile Stadium in Standerton, Mpumalanga, the mayor stressed the need to move beyond slogans and awareness campaigns to implement tangible, community-based interventions — particularly in schools — to safeguard children who are increasingly vulnerable to drug exposure.
Mayor Mngomezulu emphasised the need for strengthened collaboration among municipalities, government departments, and civil society organisations to combat the escalating drug crisis effectively.
He also underscored the critical role of whistleblowers in exposing illicit drug activities and called for robust measures to ensure their protection, framing it as a vital component of a comprehensive, community-driven response to substance abuse.
Joining him at the commemoration was Mr. Wilson Gustav, Chief Director for Restorative Services in the Mpumalanga Department of Social Development. He noted that the province has established active substance abuse forums and local action committees within municipalities to ensure continuous coordination and support. However, the province continues to grapple with structural challenges such as high unemployment, poverty, inequality, and crime — all of which contribute to rising substance abuse rates.
The engagement also showcased several initiatives underway in Lekwa Municipality, including door-to-door campaigns, school visits, parenting workshops, and community prayer services. In addition, skills development programmes are being offered through Gert Sibande College and youth centres in Sakhile and Sibukile. The province has also partnered with non-profit organisations to deliver HIV prevention education, child protection workshops, and broader community development services.
With only two registered substance abuse treatment centres in the province, Mr Gustav highlighted the importance of incorporating prevention, treatment, and social support in future programmes. Both leaders reaffirmed their joint commitment to translating policy into practice, aiming to make Lekwa and the broader Mpumalanga region safer, healthier, and more resilient communities.